You Will Find Your People

The way that you live and present yourself will send a message to everyone around you about who you are and what you stand for. The way that you talk to people, the actions that you take, the causes that you hold dear—all of these things are indicators to others about the kind of person that you are, and whether or not they will want to associate with you. Your vibe will attract your tribe, quite literally! Don't feel bad if someone doesn't vibe with you. Oftentimes, it's because they just have a completely different way of life than yours, and that's okay!

We're not all going to be the same, and you're not going to vibe with everyone you meet either. There are always going to be differences between you and the people that you meet. You're not always going to agree with someone 100% of the time, and that's a good thing! It gives you and others a chance to see something from someone else's viewpoint for a change. You never know the things that you can learn from someone simply because they see things differently than you, or live a different lifestyle than you do.

The thing that you have to remember is that not everyone is going to like you, and you have to learn to be okay with that. Some people just lead different enough lives that the thought of interacting with you doesn't sit right with them, and the only thing that you can do is to just let them do what they want. Don't stress yourself out over whether or not someone likes you, or even wants to hang out with you for that matter. You will find your people! They're out there!

You need to let go of the idea that everyone you meet is going to automatically like you and want to be your best bud. When you can let go of those ideas, you can find the people that are going to want to hang out with you and are going to love you for who you are. You are going to find your tribe. All you have to do is to be yourself and your people will find you!

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