Don't Look for a Role Model; Be the Role Model

Most people have role models and look up to someone they aspire to be like. The thing is, the person that you should be looking up to is yourself. Make the necessary changes in your life in order to become the person that you want to be. Don’t rely on other people to be role models for you.

Something that gets lost in translation when talking about role models is the fact that everyone—including your role model—is flawed. Everyone is going to make mistakes and slip up, or possibly say something that gets them into trouble.

You shouldn’t hold anyone up on a pedestal because things could change in an instant. You never know what people's true intentions are. You only know what your intentions are, which is why you should treat yourself as your role model.

Be the person that you would look up to and admire! Why admire someone else when they might end up letting you down in the end? You know how you act and why you do the things that you do, so the best thing that you can do in your life is to let yourself become your role model.

Turn yourself into the person that you want to look up to. Be the person that your younger self would have wanted to become. You’re never too old to keep growing, so why not grow into the person that you wanted to be when you were little? Make yourself your role model!

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